Abstract:
The purpose of this study was to explore the experiences of Unmarried Single
Mothers and develop a theory of the factors that influence the perception of their
spiritual development. Interviews were carried out with nine unmarried single
mothers who are members of a local church. Observations as well as participations
were also done with the group as they met for church activities and fellowship
meetings.
The key factor that emerged was what the researcher has termed as the "revolutionary
point" whereby the unmarried single mother comes to a point in time where she
experiences freedom from her inner struggles and past experiences. At that point of
time, a realization is reached and with a conviction within, leading to a turning point
which results in a positive self-perception and interpretation of people's perceptions of
her. Secondary to the revolutionary point was the support systems, which the
research showed paved the way to the revolutionary point or strengthened the results
of the revolutionary point experience. The two factors, revolutionary point and
support systems, had an impact in the way that the single mother responded to life
challenges and the perception of others as well as her own perceptions. One's daily
experiences, as an individual or as she interacted with the society were explored.
From the findings, recommendations were suggested in developing an understanding
of the needs of the unmarried single mothers and helping them to grow spiritually to
reach the potential that God requires of them as members of the body of Christ. At
the same time calling on them to a life of purity and integrity as they seek to be
nurtured spiritually.
